I have to move on for him

While i watching this TVB drama :

The Stew Of Life 有營煮婦

This show make me realized that 'let go a bit now, then later will be getting more and better--will be back also if we have faith to be together'

There were this 2 ladies' love story:
!st would be Fala Chen as Ng Choi Nei 吳采妮 (Charlie) acted as relationship around age 30.
Problem : In the relationship, she and the bf also not mature and alw think of themselves only ( just like now...ME...and most of the young relationship). They broke up boz of small thing - not understanding each other enough. Solution: Both of them did their part, Charlie know her ex bf like to have the feeling of 'home', so she started learning how to cook, keep house, be mature and be more understanding while the broke up period. Ryan ( the bf) tried to be more mature and more understanding...the most important - learn to be MAN. The end, both of them happy loving together.
This is the result of both side also give their love and efforts in to the relationship.

What i learned from this story is...i need to put more effort in to the relationship that i wanted to keep. But, the cooking part...i need to take time to handle it, boz i know he actually aslo wan me to cook for him. He is the one who wan to feeling of HOME, just like the guy in that drama. He mentioned to me so manytimes that he wan me to be like his sis, take care the whole family and independent. Now...i will be forcusing all this and letting him know...i can do it.

2nd would be Christine Ng as Lo Siu Mei 魯小美 (May) acted as relationship around age 45.
Problem: May looking for man by looking at their family background and outlook. But, the end she fall in love with a 'fat guy' who not rich, ....the most important he very understanding and caring. This make her felf that she cant ever find this type of man from a rich man. They broke up boz there her ex husband came back to her and that time she dont know who to choose ( whether to choose someone who satisfied all her requirements or someone who dont satisfy her requirement but Lover her so much and care her so much). The fat guy found out they still contact each other, so he angry and gone. Solution: May sending him one email per day about her life and telling him how much she miss him. Besides that, she also never hope that he will be back, but just move on her life.by adopted few children to accompany her life. The end, the guy know her changes and back to her :)

What i learned from this story is to keep moving on my life although now he no twith me anymore, But, i no need to give up, boz i believe GOD will bring us together back in the future and wan to let him see the changes on me. I am sure he will confirm 100% fall in love with me again.

Besides this, there is also another sign telling me i need to move on for him. While i reading the entertainment news, 2 singers have been together again while they alr broke up last 2 years for some reasons and next year they getting married. This really motivate me with full of energy getting him back :)

So, from now on....i need to reduce checking him out so often.
One week can only check his facebook for 3 times.
No contact with him until i am ready by showing him the changes of me...
Please support me if u r my true friends :)